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Stages of Addiction and Recovery

October 10, 2017 By Denise Leave a Comment

Did you know that people who suffer from addiction go through stages of addiction recovery?

While not everybody has the same experience, most people hit these same stages in this order. Depending on the stage of addiction recovery that someone is in, however, they could move backwards or forwards from stage 3 onwards.

Stages of addiction recovery

Here are the stages of addiction and recovery:

Stage 1: Initiation

This is the “I’m curious” stage. This stage typically happens as a child or teen and starts with that wonder and curiosity rather than the icky and gross we were taught in drug education. This could also be referred to as an action stage.

Stage 2: Experimentation

In the experimentation stage, a person will do drugs or drink alcohol to explore the effects and will not crave or want more once the drug or alcohol wears off. They are simply experimenting.

Stage 3: Regular Use

During this stage, a person starts to get on a pattern. Maybe it’s every Friday and Saturday night but generally, there are no negative consequences and the use is still light and fun. People often refer to this as a maintenance stage.

Stage 4: Problem or Risky Use

Now this is the stage where red flags start to surface. The behavior turns risky and there are consequences and problems after each use. For example, a person at a college party blacks out or a person purchases drugs from someone they do not know. It’s problematic and risky.

Stage 5: Dependence

This is a problem stage. This is where a person is feeling psychologically or physically dependent on a drug or alcohol. For example, a person who feels like they can’t work or get through their classes without using a substance. During this stage, a person is likely to keep on using, every single day to avoid some sort of withdrawal.

Stage 6: Substance Use Disorder

This is an actual mental health disorder that can be diagnosed by a mental health professional. When someone is diagnosed with a Substance Use Disorder, it means that the drugs and/or alcohol has had and is having a serious effect on their life, to the point where they need some sort of treatment or intervention in order to obtain a full recovery.

Stage 7: Treatment

This is the final stage in the stages of addiction . When a person enters this stage they are, hopefully, on board with wanting to make changes to their life and gain sobriety. Of course there is a process of recovery to go through and so again, each person is different in how they choose to recover. Treatment options vary and while people often think that treatment centers or 12-step meetings are the only way to deal with their substance of choice, Live Rehab offers many more options. Because the effects of addiction are so wide and vast, it is important to tackle all areas of life. This can include areas such as nutrition or fitness and even family matters as well.  

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When Your Partner Drinks – And You’re Trying to Stop

October 9, 2017 By Denise Leave a Comment

It’s Extremely Difficult to get Sober if Your Partner doesn’t Give it Up Too

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If you have a partner that drinks or is not willing to give up alcohol when they are around you, getting sober will be very hard.  It is so important, and I mean so critically important, that your partner is there to support  you and does not drink around you, or gives it up entirely. If they are not willing to, I am here to tell you that you will need to have the strongest will power or you may need to take a break for a few months until you can stabilize.

Why Communication is Important

I want you to be open with your partner.  It’s important to have strong communication skills so your partner knows exactly how hard this is going to be for you and having their support can mean the difference of obtaining full sobriety or not.  Most people who do not have supportive spouses fail.  That’s not to say it’s impossible but if you have a supportive partner, it makes things much easier. 

Does Your Partner Have a Problem Too?

One thing you are going to want to evaluate is whether or not your partner has a problem too.  If they don’t have a problem then not drinking will be easy for them. They’ll be able to not drink around you or give it up completely.  If they have a problem, it might not be that easy for them and then perhaps, you should try and get sober together.  If they’re not ready to get sober but you are, don’t give up on yourself.  Take a break, get some distance, and when you are strong and able, you can go back to help them.  

Your Action Item

Is your partner on board or not?  If not, are you ready to take a break – get some distance for a few months?  Take some time to figure this out. Once you’ve made a decision, communicate this with your partner.  To eliminate conflict, it’s important for them to understand that it’s about you and when it comes to alcoholism, the best thing you can do is help yourself first.  In the end, you’ll come out stronger.

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The Health Benefits of Not Drinking Alcohol

October 3, 2017 By Denise 1 Comment

Alcoholism is a slow and steady disease that deteriorates the body.  You don’t feel the health problems right away and that’s why most people continue to drink and drink and drink until one day, there’s a problem. I want you think of alcohol as a drug because that’s exactly what it is.  The reason most people don’t think of it as a drug is because it’s legal and most adults drink alcohol.  But, if you put a substance into your body and it alters your consciousness somehow, that’s a drug right?  What if, alcohol was illegal but heroin was legal?  

Your Drug of Choice

If you’ve ever had a chemical dependency assessment you know that the main question you are asked is, ‘what is your drug of choice?’  Now everyone has a personal preference.  Some people like downers, some people like uppers, and some people don’t like either.  When you think of uppers you think of cocaine or methamphetamine.  When you think of downers you may think of opiates or marijuana.  Alcohol is most definitely a downer as it is a suppressant.  Just because your drug of choice is alcohol doesn’t mean that you are any better or worse than someone using heroin or cocaine.  The substance goes into your body, you feel good and high and then you come down and have a hangover.  All drugs are like this.  If there was a drug out that didn’t cause a hangover or any adverse effects then everyone would be all over that but, it doesn’t exist.  

How Hard is Alcohol on the Body?

Now that we’ve settled the fact that alcohol is a drug let’s talk about how alcohol is just as hard, if not harder on your body than all the other drugs out there.  It’s bad for your liver, your heart, and especially your brain.  

You can become physically dependent on alcohol and it’s one of the only drugs out there that you can actually die from withdrawal (benzos are the other ones.)  It seems wild that you can’t die from a heroin withdrawal but you can die from an alcohol withdrawal and alcohol is legal!

What Happens When You Stop Drinking?

When you stop drinking alcohol a lot of things happen to your body.  First, you must get through the initial withdrawal without dying and that takes time.  Some people even need to be medically monitored.  But once you stop drinking alcohol you will notice that you’ll be able to sleep better.  You won’t wake up in the middle of the night as often having to urinate or feeling dehydrated.  

When you stop drinking alcohol you may notice less stomach issues as alcohol can be very hard on your stomach lining.  You’ll have less heart burn and such.  

You’ll also notice you’ll be more clear headed and have less brain fog.  You’ll get less headaches and your blood pressure will start to lower. Your body is going to start repairing itself on the inside too.  Your liver will start to repair itself and your blood cells will become smaller which in turn will transport more oxygen to your heart.  You’ll get more energy.  

Remember, alcohol is basically empty calories.  If you substitute water you will start to feel so much better within only a few weeks.  

Isn’t Alcohol Healthy Though?

Another thing to be aware of is you will certainly come across articles where science has shown that drinking alcohol is healthy.  Do not fall for that.  The reason these articles go viral is because most of society is looking for a way to validate their drinking.  I am not in any way saying the science is wrong.  I am saying that there are other things you can do that will equally give you the same benefits.  For example, you can drink grape juice to give you the wine benefits.  But overall, if you stop drinking your body will be in much better shape then it ever has been.  Alcohol may give some health benefits but drinking too much has the opposite effect and is very detrimental.  Anybody can do a study on the health benefits of anything.  So just keep that in mind when you see those articles. Your healthy lifestyle will outweigh those ‘so cal health benefits.  

Do Not Trade One Bad Habit for Another

I can’t stress this part enough though.  Do not trade one bad habit for another.  When you decide to stop drinking alcohol, I highly recommend thinking about this as a lifestyle change too.  You won’t feel better if you trade alcohol for soda or if you pick up a junk food habit.  You need to have a healthy diet and keep your body moving. If you don’t already have an exercise plan in place, I recommend doing so.  You can join a gym, class or just start walking.  Whatever you’re doing now, try to add a little more.  If you don’t currently exercise, you must start doing so.  

Stop Smoking Too!

And one last thing, if you smoke cigarettes, I recommend quitting smoking at the same time.  You will not feel better or feel completely free until you rid yourself from all of your addictions. 

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How to Talk to Your Kids about Your Addiction

August 16, 2017 By Denise Leave a Comment

Having kids can be especially painful when struggling with addiction. Nobody wants their kids to see them drunk or high. Nobody intends to emotionally hurt their children but it happens and kids will remember.

Ignoring the issue is not a good idea as your kids will feel like it’s not their place to ask questions or offer suggestions. They will be confused and scared so it’s better to tackle the topic head on.

Age Appropriate Conversations

Babies and toddlers may not understand addiction but they can certainly feel the difference between a sober parent and a non-sober parent. While the conversation may not be in words it’s important to not to parent your child if you are drunk or high. If you find yourself around alcohol or drugs you can start by pointing at the object and saying “icky” or make a sour face. For example, “Mommy isn’t going to drink this now because it’s icky.” Don’t let your little ones believe that you under the influence is the better parent.

As children get a little older you can certainly address the topic a little more in depth. For example, you can say, “I don’t want to drink beer but sometimes I can’t help it because I have an addiction. I am trying hard to stop.” This type of communication opens up the door for further conversation and answers the question the child was thinking in their head, ‘why does my daddy drink so much beer?’

Teenagers need to hear your explanations as well. By the time they are teenagers they know when you are drunk or high and they are probably experimenting with drugs and alcohol themselves. This is a good opportunity to open up to them about how hard it is to quit which might give them some valuable insight when they are facing decisions themselves.

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Why You Don’t Have to Hit Rock Bottom to Get Help

August 15, 2017 By Denise Leave a Comment

When you watch TV shows or talk shows about addiction, you will always see someone who is worse off than you. You know the age old saying about hitting rock bottom – basically implying that people don’t need professional help until they have lost everything in their life? That sort of mentality is dangerous. It’s dangerous because there are millions of people who know they are headed down a dangerous path but because of media and stigma, they don’t believe it’s bad enough to warrant help.

These are the people who have careers, families, friends, and an active social life. These are people who are really good at masking their daily struggles and can pull off hangovers and bad decisions.

If this is you, I want you to stop and think for a moment. Do you really want to lose everything? Because at some point, you will. Why not tackle your addiction before it gets the best of you, your family, and friends? There’s no shame in just stopping.

We live in an unfortunate world where reaching out for help can jeopardize a lot. While there are so many advocates who are trying to change this, and believe me, they are doing a fantastic job and making so much needed progress, the reality is, it’s still there. Most people don’t have the luxury of just taking 3 months off from work without losing their stride in their career, or having family or friends doubt or underestimate them.

It is a lot easier to obtain sobriety and stay sober when your answer to not drinking or doing is drugs is that you just don’t rather than stating you had a problem, you lost everything, and you have to work your butt off to get it all back.

Getting sober from home certainly does have some disadvantages but overall, it’s a great alternative for those who just can’t pick up and leave everything behind for 3 months. Or perhaps, not need to! There is not harm in trying this approach first.

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